Thursday, February 27, 2014

Letter from Apopa received 2/27/2014



The church building here is similar to the one in Ilopango except that it only has one floor where Ilopango has two. It has a chapel, a gym with a stage, about 10 classrooms, the library, the family history center (a room with computes where all the missionaries write home Mondays) and 3ish offices. It could be in the states, except for the fact all the windows are barred, there's a tall fence with a perpetually padlocked gate, and there's an outdoor soccer field in place of a parking lot.

Apopa area in the mission is big, stretching across 7 or 8 small towns. There are mountains on the western horizon. There is more open space than in Ilopango. The houses are a little farther apart (humbler, too) in all the places I've been to except Los Angeles and downtown Nejapa. It's definitely more rural. I don't see as many squirrels here, which is sad because I still want a picture of one, but I see a variety of other animals. WE have a ton of geckos living with us in our house, a lot of people have pericos as pets, and a lot of people have chickens, cats and dogs too. We see horses and cows often in Castillo and Aldea. Ever time I hear a bird call, I think of Grandma. <3 data-blogger-escaped-br="">
I sleep better here than in Ilopango, because I actually have a bed (there, I slept on a mattress, which didn't bother me but it is a luxury to have a real bed). No problems with bed bugs, and my companion kindly lent me her extra pillow. (I also sleep with the little puppy pillows Mel made for me. :)

We have some GREAT members here who help us out a lot. The most helpful ones are young single adults. There are also two Relief Society sisters who sometimes accompany us on Sundays or Saturdays and who are really great to make the investigators feel welcome at church.

Heaven be thanked, my health has been remarkable resilient. The majority of people here, unlike Ilopango are accustomed to drinking chorro (unfiltered water) and when they offer us things to drink it's almost always made from chorro. We never refuse offers of food because it would offend them - sharing food is a big deal, more so here than in Ilopango. I've used several of the digestzen and OnGuard pills on the occasions I don't feel too good, and so far I haven't had any real problems.

Our house feels huge because only the two of us live here. It's blue on the outside with a big black portion (that's garage door - I think). To get in, you walk through the portion, the on-car garage, then up the steps and through a second door. The inside is white and pastel orange with pastel tan/brown tile. We have a big room with our two white desks (big desks), our miscrowave and missionary supplies. A second slightly smaller room has the fridge and kitchen sink, and a door to go into the patio/courtyard. Also, the door to the bathroom, which is blue and has a working shower. We also have our bedroom (barely big enough for the two single size beds) and the room that has our suitcases and clothes.

Right now it is summertime, and it only rains during the winter. But there were a few days I got out my umbrella to protet us from the sun. It doesn't happen often - we usually deal with the sun. It's not very humid - I hear it gets pretty miserable in the rainy season though.

Refineria is a ward. About 120-140 attend.

I play the piano in every sacrament meeting and once I played a piano solo. Nothing fancy, just out of the hymnbook.

There aren't a ton of mosquitoes right now. WE don't sleep under nets, but we do sleep with the fan going, which in addition to keeping us cool also keeps the mosquitoes to a minimum.

In Ilopango, there were always a ton of people selling things walking up and down the pasajes, and from about 5:30am on, we heard several bike horns (the guys on bikes sell rolls) and other shouts of whatever wares the person had. Here, I only hear two vendedores usually one at 6am, one at 6:30am and one at 7 (The vendor who comes at 6 returns to pass by again at 7) Just a fun fact.

More fun facts: I never once saw a mototaxi in Ilopango, but here there are a ton. The max number of people I've seen fit into a mototaxi is five: 3 squished in the back and one on each side of the driver. All the motos are decorated just like the cars and buses, with bumper stickers (usually religiously themed) and even extra lights. There's one I've seen around with a strobe light in different colors. It lights up the whole street at night.

Oh, and all the motos are always red. Just like taxis are always yellow.

Fun Spanish facts I've learned : "cabal" means "that's right"; "vaya" translates to "yeah"; "gineo" is "banana"; "fuera de seria" means "outside the norm"; "zancudo" is "mosquito" while a "mosquito" is just a house fly; "ya" means "now!"; "ahora" is a synonym with "hoy" which means "today". The Parada family in Ilopango always uses "cabal" and "vaya" I learned "gineo" from Hna Escalante, who hates gineos. Our cocinera Areli Reyes says I'm a grintita "fuera deseria" because I eat tortillas. The words "ya" and "ahora" confused me at first because I heard them in a different context than what I was used to. Hna Gonzalez taught me the difference between "zancudo" and "mosquito" (That one was a bit harder to remember.)

Now that we've hit the questions abnd the culture, let me tell you a little about one of our recent converts, Cristian Alexander Linares Franco. He's the biggest news of my time in Apopa for sure. We've known him for a while because he drives and is sometimes cobrador (the cobrador is partners with the driver and is in charge of collecting everyone's cordas - I mean quarters - and telling the driver which paradas - I mean bus stops to stop at_ of the 38-F, th route between Apopa and Los Angeles.

He always stook out to us because he's more respectful to the passengers than a lot of other cobradores, and them we acquired his cell number and became friends over several weeks of calling him every night: "Is the bus almost here? You're going back to Apopa, right? or are you done for the night? Please wait for us, we're running a little late but we're almost there!"

And then one day, he purposefully put on a song in the bus that has a line about how Mormons have so much time on their hands they make up lies about how coffee is bad. Hna E. picked up on it right away and wrote him a note on the back of a Word of Wisdom pamphlet: "One day we hope to have the opportunity to explain why we don't drink coffee." We left him the note, very pleased with ourselves and very amused.

A few weeks later the bus Cristian worked got its license revoked and Cristian was left out of a job for a week. Hna E and I taught him everything in a single week. what caught his attention most was our message about families, that they can be together forever. He's single, 23, with a little daughter and a little son whose mother's left him for other men. A lot of this family emers have died - his mother and three of this siblings. He doesn't know his dad and he's lived alone in Los Angeles for I don't know how long.

One of the things he wants most is to be with his mom again in the next life. He ate up everything we taught and studied quite a lot on his own. He accepted a baptismal date quickly and was baptized four weeks later.

It's amazing to see how God prepared him to change his life through the gospel. And he has changed = no more coffee, no more swearing, always ready when we got to bring him to church. He's the one teaching us now, and he only has about four days to be a member of the church. Imagine. Incredible.
Hna E is a good missionary. She has a gift for getting people to open up - they trust her readily, and love her.
Here in Apopa, with all the experiences I've had (good and bad both), I've learned to appreciate even more what the grace of Jesus Christ really means. Through His grace, I've received solace in my heart. Through His grace, I've found the strength to carry on. Through His grace, I've witnessed miracles. Through His grace, we are protected from danger and find people like Cristian who are mega prepared to hear the Gospel. I know God lives. I know His power is real. I know prayer works. I know I'm here for a reason. I know this work is bigger than me.

I know I have the best family in the world, and I sure love you.

Much Love,
Jessica

PS A week after I wrote this, Christian was ordained a Priest with the Aaronic Priesthood. The week after that, he blessed la Santa Cena!

More random pictures from the memory card she sent with the letter:








Monday, February 24, 2014

CAMBIOS!


Hijas de Hermana Gonzalez. (Daugthers of Hermana Gonzalez). I felt very blessed to be able to say a last goodbye to the legendary Hna Gonzalez who taught me everything I know. She finished her mission and is back with her family in Guatemala. I love her with all my heart.

HOLA, my wonderful family and friends!

The big news this week was the reunion de cambios change meetings. Hna Escalante went to a different area. I will stay here and show Hermana Infanzon de Philadelphia all around Apopa. Hace poco (Recently) she was one of the hermanas líderes (the equivalent of an AP but for the Hermanas), and I feel very privileged to have such an inspired, sweet companion. She´s only been here about 5 days but has already left an impression on the ward and the work. She is a finding machine! We have quite a few new investigators thanks to our mutual effort. I am sooo excited and thrilled to be able to have her for six weeks. And ojalá, un poco más (hopefully, a little more) after that.

Saying goodbye to Hna Gonzalez was hard. She finished her mission and went home in this cambio (change). She taught me everything I know. She has had a huge impact not just on my mission but on my life. It´s not for nothing that missionaries playfully nickname their trainers ´mamá´ or ´papá.´ We both cried (many of you know I don´t cry easily) and hugged for a long time. I am so grateful to my Heavenly Father for the privilege of being one of her ´daughters,´ and I will be working even harder from now on to keep up her legacy.

Our investigators are doing so great. We have a lot of really promising ones, as well as many promising contacts. In particular I had a faith-building experience yesterday when I contacted a woman on the bus. After I introduced myself and a little about our message (We are missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and as missionaries we share a message about how God´s plan blesses you and your family) she told me her mother recently died and that her one hope was that she would see her again after death. As she got off the bus, she yelled, ´You have to come to my house and teach me! Make sure you come to my house!´

Wow. Contacts are rarely so positive. It was really cool to see how the Lord put a prepared person in my way. I hope all of you are taking advantage of even small opportunities to share the gospel. Be an example of the believers!

Love you!

Hna Henrie

Familia Argueta gave me a new look last week. haha

Monday, February 17, 2014

Hastening the Work!

foto from our conference with Elder Kevin Duncan of the 70. Zona Apopa, w00t!
Dear family and friends,

A big HELLO from here in Apopa! And hugs all around. (But only to the hermanas. Muchachos only get a firm handshake.)

Dad asked me a while ago which word we use in Spanish for `hasten.` We use `Apurese`. And yesterday Hna Escalante and I were running ourselves (and five wonderful, faithful members who were out with us) off our feet hastening the work in one of our pueblos (cities). We have set a goal with the bishop to open a rama (branch, which is a small LDS congregation of about 25-100 members) in Nejapa by the end of this year. Right now there are only a handful of members and another handful of progressing investigators in that part of our area, so we have a series of smaller goals of things we`re doing to help us really develop and hasten the work.

We had an awesome family home evening last night in the home of one of our recent converts, Rosa, who`s now a member missionary on fire! She invited two people to her house for the activity, we invited one of our investigators, and all three of them plus two kids showed up. Add all the ward missionaries and the ward mission leader, and it was a true party. We started with a message about Christ`s eternal and pure love for each of us and that we are His hands here on earth. We finished with a few rounds of various games. `No te comas a Pedro,` (Don`t Eat Pete, Mrs. Tuttle! :D) `pan chuco,` and `què pasarìa.` I don`t think I`ve ever laughed so much in my life. I forgot every care and worry and just let myself be lost in the joy of sharing with new friends.

Laughter truly is the best medicine. Laughter and work. Bueno... laughter, work, and the passage of time, depending on what challenge you`re facing.

May all of you laugh often, work hard, and love much. God is blessing you! If you look for His hand in the little things of life, you will find the strength and will you need to carry on.

Con mucho amor,
Hermana Henrie
a beautiful morning (taken from the doorway to our patio)
Hna E asked me what we do as a family for Valentine`s Day, and the night of Feb 14 we ate dinner by flashlight (we don`t have candles) while my iPod played soothing instrumental music. Very romantic. haha (her family always hosts a dance) it was nice, because it was very peaceful.

Monday, February 10, 2014

Amazing days


Dear family and friends,

What to say about this week... We have had some amazing days. On Tuesday we had intercambios (exchanges) with the sister leaders, and for the first time I left my area for a 24 hour period to work with one of our leaders. I was a little nervous, but I learned a lot and ended up really enjoying Ciudad Delgado for the time I was there. While I was in Delgado, my companion and the other sister leader posted two new fechas bautismales (baptismal dates). So that´s exciting! :)

The young single adults of this ward are really pilas (sharp, or motivated) to help us in the work here. On Saturday a new jovencita (girl) named Anita started going visiting with us. She´s in her early twenties and wants to go on a mission. She actually lived in Houston for almost the whole of last year, so we´ve had fun talking about our favorite restaurants in the States. Haha I don´t know how much English she speaks because we always speak Spanish. (It´s weird for me now to hear or speak anything but Spanish. I don´t like speaking English anymore. Más bonito el español. (Spanish is so pretty.) Only in my journal and on Mondays do I ever muddle into English.) She´s been a really great help.

To any of you who are going through a hard time in life, or are worried for the future, remember Doctrina y Convenios 36:6: Look unto me in every thought- doubt not, fear not.

As John Bytheway says, ´This too shall pass.´

And 1 Corintios 10:13: The Lord is faithful, and with the temptation (or trial) provides a way to overcome it. Sometimes things are hard. But as the saying goes, when you can´t stand, kneel. And pray until you feel better.

Much love from me to you!

Hermana Henrie

Monday, February 3, 2014

And another week bites the dust

making french toast in a noche de hogar with family argueta
Dear family and friends,

Hello from El Salvador! I`m sitting here in the LDS chapel in Apopa, and loving it! Our week was pretty average. We taught lessons. We held family activities (noches de hogar, or family home evenings). We had a new investigator accept a date for baptism. ( :D !)

I received a new mountain of letters this past mission conference (we had another conference, this time with Elder Kevin Duncan of the 70. It was AMAZING. Powerful past two weeks, eh?) but finished them in a few days and am back to writing. I`ll have quite the stack of letters to send when Hna E and I go to the correo (mail) next week. I love sharing my testimony. Thank you for giving me that opportunity. I also love love LOVE reading your testimonies. Thanks for sharing them with me.

Se cuidan, todos. (Take care, all.) Sorry the letter this week is pequeña (short).

Con amor,

Hna Henrie
gecko in our house! :)
Hna e and I had a flour fight last night after we found gusanos (worms)in our flour. (we didn`t throw the gusanos, only the ruined flour.) haha we had to clean our house gooood today.